Miss Maggie Mayhem, photo by Thomas Roche
It makes sense in so many ways that I would be writing here on the subject of BDSM. I am part of a cohort that joined the BDSM community at a much younger age than many of my fellow perverts. I’m not saying anything new by commenting that the internet has revolutionized every aspect of our lives, but since my specialty is kinky sex I’m happy to highlight the impact of the World Wide Web on how I found the scene and how it has impacted the way I forged my identity. All things considered, bondage and discipline, Domination and submission, and sadomasochism are pretty esoteric. But while there are few people who discuss it openly in public there are many who enjoying sharing their knowledge and experiences on the web. As a teen I was able to access information that wasn’t always as readily available and by age 18 I had a vocabulary for my desire. Sharing my thoughts and experiences with you seems entirely natural to me. Many people who enjoy kinky sex may have faced judgement from friends or family at some point in their lives but I believe quite firmly that the world will not be say for someone like me to come out in the open about their life until someone like me actually does.

So who am I exactly? I’m 24 years old and I seem to get myself in some very interesting situations from time to time. I did my first public scene at age 18 and I’ve loved what I call “sex hacking” ever since. While some people may be content with the standard model and package I like to modify my sexuality to my own precise specifications. Sometimes it means that the Dominant young woman in me needs to be indulged, but at other times my strong masochistic streak wants to find out just how much I can take from the hand of a skilled player. I can be found dangling in rope suspension just as easily as I can be found reclining while my boots are attended to by an attentive partner. I am never content with the same thing night after night.

My interest in sexuality has also influenced my career path. Although I had a very different picture about what I wanted to do with my life, I found a passion for HIV prevention and I have worked as a test counselor for four years and counting. I am also involved with SFSI (San Francisco Sex Information) an organization that offers sex educator trainings and a hotline where people from all over the world can call and ask questions about sex without judgement. My desire to learn more is insatiable and I am forever grateful to the people who paved a path for me.

So thanks for reading and come back often. This blog will cover a wide spectrum of topics from interesting experiences I have had to the status of sex in the media and in politics. I always love feedback so please feel free to leave comments and suggestions for me.

Yours,
Miss Maggie Mayhem

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Posted on November 22nd, 2008
Posted by Miss Maggie Mayhem